😳 OMG. They DO all go to the same class!! I saw this guy TWICE. I asked him a question he didn’t like and he went off on me. I recognized too many words from a script I’ve been in before. I left him alone per his request. True to narsisstic form; they want you to chase them. So he’s having his narcissistic rage as we speak. I’m almost fascinated. I feel like I’m watching monkeys in a lab. Same lines, same words, exact same tactics. I would bet you $1000 that was my ex on the other phone texting me if I didn’t know better. And I do not feel one ounce of desire to even read the 23 texts in the last 10 minutes. I’m just sitting here intrigued as hell. Everyone was right!! You’ll recognize them at the gate from now on. It wasn’t that long ago I would have immediately been riddled with guilt. And watching this now I realize how far I’ve come, how much I truly survived and proud I am of myself I am at this moment.
One thing he told me a few times was that he could probably pass a lie detector test. I believe that. Everything he says I believe he’d pass regardless of truth or not. I have now learned why that’s not exactly a good thing. If you think you’ll be the exception and they’ll tell you the truth because you’re the wife, husband, daughter, mother, whatever……forget it. I’ve tried. A lot. I can see that for him it just isn’t possible. A few things he’s admitted, but only the vaguest of things. Even asking direct questions, I can see he simply can not tell the truth.
This article is worth the read. Every single point applies to my husband. Every single one of them.