The Day Shit Got Real

August 23, 2015 Sunday

Woke up at 3 am to him moving the baby into her bed in the next room. I didn’t pay any attention until I heard her crying. I got up and asked what he was doing. He stated he wasn’t having her in the bed anymore, HE was sleeping in the bed. So I told him to just hand her to me and I’d lay down wherever just so we could all go back to sleep. I needed to get up in 2 hours and go to work. He refused to hand her to me and told me to go to bed. She was still crying and I asked again for her and he again said no. He went to the rocker with her and at this point I was getting upset. I pleaded with him to just hand her to me so we could all go to sleep, I had to be up in 2 hours to work. He continued to refuse saying she was his daughter too and he wasn’t giving her to me. Also that he wasn’t letting her in the bed anymore. After becoming very upset, I was finally given her and we laid right back down in the bed. She fell right back to sleep. He sat on the side of the bed and just kept asking me why I would be loud and make sure she stayed awake, why didn’t I love him anymore, why did I keep my last husband on the couch for 2 years, ect. Same questions for 2 hours. I begged for that last hour of sleep, but he kept going.

I got up and got ready for work. He was gone when I got out of the shower and when I texted him he was not very forthcoming about letting me go to work. He just kept texting back that we needed to talk, he needed his wife back, that this was more important than my job.  This literally went on for 15 more minutes. I kept saying I need to go to work to feed our kids and he’d reply with how this marriage came before my job. (Ummm……no it does not!!)
He finally came up the driveway. As I was leaving he told me what a selfish bitch I was and how he had done nothing but try and I wasn’t doing anything (same thing, new day) He tells me how he’s never loved anyone this much or how he’s never tried to make a relationship work as hard as he has done this time.
I was a mess by the time I got to work and made it through a few hours, but then I saw that he posted that entire mornings exchange on Facebook.

I went to the back room and started crying. A coworker came to the back and asked me what was wrong, I told her what happened and that this had been going on now for several months. I told her he had started throwing things at me, but I could see his aggression escalating.

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