July 20, Monday
We had already been arguing and he was outside drinking. He came into the house and got into the bed. I got up and went to the couch because I simply don’t want to be around him. I took my phone just like always. He came into the living room and asked who I was texting. I tried to assure him no one and I was doing my typical boring dead people research. He didn’t believe me and told me to give him my phone. I refused and at that time there was a physical attempt on both sides; him to get it and me to keep it. Of course he got it and discovered I put a passcode on it. Not because I was hiding anything, but because I was tired of him thinking he had the power and right to demand to be able to go through my things whenever he wanted. He stated he would smash it if I didn’t unlock it and I still refused. He had been drinking and I was getting scared, so I went upstairs and got my sons cellphone. He repeated that he’d smash it and I still refused to unlock it. I asked him to calm down and give me my phone or I would call the police. He stated that was proof I was hiding something and even said “hey kids, your mom is a cheating whore!!” Two of my boys were standing at the top of the stairs.
I called 911 and he ran out the back door. I pointed the police to the shed where I assumed he was at and he wasn’t. He had taken my cellphone and my car keys with him. The officer called his cellphone. He told the officer that called him that he paid the cellphone bill and therefore it was his to take.
He has never paid the cellphone bill, he states that he didn’t say that, but I believe an officer over him any day. The officer also stated to him on the phone that I think he took my car keys. He denied having my keys.
That night he also posted on FB that “if you ask your wife for her phone passcode and she calls 911 instead than she’s probably a cheating whore!” I have no idea where he was or how he got there.